Not By Chance, by Dr. Tim Thayne

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Dr. Tim Thayne teaches what to do while your son or daughter is in treatment to prepare for a greater chance of success after treatment.

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Tim Thayne had a career crisis, when he realized how many families struggle even after years of therapy and tens of thousands of dollars in adolescent treatment programs for their sons or daughters. His mission began by going to the research on what makes change last, creating Homeward Bound to enter the homes of the families to teach, coach, and coordinate the parents and the community. But not all families could afford that level of service.

Today, the Not by Chance Parent Program is the fulfillment of the dream to make excellent aftercare available to every family through technology, tools, and time tested expertise.

17 VIDEO LESSONS

Watch and learn online as Dr. Thayne interacts with a live studio audience. Download the templates that accompany each lesson.

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COURSE OUTLINE

INTRODUCTION TO THE NOT BY CHANCE PROGRAM When we can focus on the transition, we radically raise success rates for teens and young adults leaving treatment.

PARTNER WITH THE PROGRAM Being unified with your program is equally important to being unified with your co-parent.

FOCUS ON VITAL BEHAVIORS / VB #1: UNITY BETWEEN PARENTS We teach many parenting principles, but there are only two Vital Behaviors. This is the first.

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Parental Unity Why it's natural for divisions to occur, and how to avoid it in parenting.

Solution-Focused Beliefs How underlying assumptions are undermining your approach with your son or daughter.

Solution Talk When used, this powerful method of communication combines earlier principles to give you a new tool for the parenting tool belt.

Interpersonal Cycles What system's theory is, why it's important to look at our interactions as a system, and how to break negative cycles.

Focus on Vital Behavior #2: Managing Emotions Where this behavior can influence interactions multiple times a day, it was voted one of the two vital behaviors.

Antidote to Reactivity #1: Compassion Introducing the 6 Antidotes to Reactivity, starting with compassion…even if it has to be manufactured at first.

Antidote to Reactivity #2: Letting Go of the Outcome How letting go of a premeditated outcome actually frees you up to fulfill Vital Behavior #2.

Antidote to Reactivity #3: Emotional Awareness What the most often encountered emotions are and how identifying a greater range will help.

Antidote to Reactivity #4: Learning to Self Soothe A bonus for being an engaged parent, you're going to love this lesson.

Antidote to Reactivity #5: Knowledge How knowledge and insights are power tools in combating nagging, badgering, etc.

Antidote to Reactivity #6: Helping Things Go Right by Nurturing the Relationship Why creating a history of good feelings gives you greater influence.

Your Ace in the Hole – The Home Team The ace in the hole is something held back till an opportune moment, and a warm and engaged Home Team provides just that for a family in transition.

Family Councils When gathering the family to discuss topics light or weighty, there are certain rules for success to be followed.

TRANSITIONS 101 How to prep for, recognize, and weather the four phases of transition like a pro.

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